I believe that I should write about what is important for me and what I appreciate most of all for you to learn me better and to understand what kind of person I am.
The most important thing I appreciate in people is sincerity. And for me sincerity means to be the way I am – to like what you like, to accept what you can’t understand and to refuse from those things you disagree with. It is difficult to be sincere but there is nothing more terrible than hypocrisy. I can’t understand people who demonstrate one thing and live absolutely different life. What for?
I can’t say that I have easy character, I have my own life principles, values, experience and ideas. And perhaps that is why I am tolerant to peculiarities of other people. Usually it is easy for me to find contact with people, make friends with new and interesting people. It seems to me that the world becomes bigger and wider when we learn something new. Each person is like a planet – we have our own order of things, our own laws of human “physics” and “chemistry”. And it is interesting for me to learn how it is possible to live another way, not the way my close people and I live. It is amazing how differently people perceive this world!
I admire people with a good sense of humor. I believe that a good sense of humor and optimism make a person strong and wise. If you can notice positive changes in life, this means that you can enjoy life. If it is natural for you to see funny moments in simple things and smile to difficulties, then you can overcome any obstacles. And I believe that I have these qualities in my character and I believe that everything what has been done is for better and I like good and nice jokes.
It is important for me to have nice – kind, respectful and trusting relations with people, especially with my close and beloved ones. I can’t say that I have a lot of close people, I believe that in this question quality is more important than quantity. It is hard for me to stand hard and conflict relations, I try to discuss all misunderstanding. If a person tries to compromise, I am happy, if he chooses another way – then it is his choice. It is important for me to be honest with myself and do my best to improve the situation.
I like to spend time with my friends. For me friends mean people I have similar outlook and deep understanding with. We can have absolutely different characters and ways of living, but we must have similar life values. Sometimes we watch interesting cinema together and then discuss the most important topics. We like to walk in the city, go camping and traveling in the Altay Mountains. Now I live alone and don’t cook often but if my friends come to me, I can cook something tasty. If there is something close, then I always want to create a holidays for him.
I have a dream and I hope that it will become true – I want to learn different kinds of dancing – from classic ballroom dances to Latin American and Oriental dances. I think that I could learn it. In my childhood I was learning pop dancing for several years, but we had to change place of living many times and I couldn’t finish my education and achieve desired results.
I enjoy melodic music, for me it means that music must me informative, it should open up like a bunch of flowers, charm and carry away. I can’t say that I am fond of a special kind of music, I like different kinds. I like to read, especially the books where author writes about people’s life and laws of this life, it can be a novel, detective story or science fiction, the most important is that the author can see a person.
My dreams are different. On one hand I dream to realize myself professionally. I got my education in psychology and worked for several years in that sphere, first I worked as a psychologist at school, then as a staff manager. But later I began to work in marketing sphere more.
On the other hand I dream to create a family – a united, big and friendly family. The most difficult is to fine the man you will be joint and close spiritually. The man I could trust to and feel myself a woman mutual attraction, mutual interest, need in each other – that is the beginning of relations. And it will depend only on us how they will develop. I want to have children, it is great joy and gift to experience the happiness of maternity. I hope that I will become good mother.
It is difficult to describe what kind of man I am looking for. I believe that first of all, he should be more experienced, more intelligent and wiser than me. He should be self-confident and do the job he really enjoys and likes. And at the same time he should be cheerful and enjoy each moment of life. He should appreciate sincerity, tenderness, attention and love. He should be able to take care of and protect his family, not be afraid of feelings and trust. He should believe that family is the way to enrich his life and get new meaning of this life. My man should be active and should like nature, traveling and new impressions. His family is the island of love, warmth and comfort for him. It is important to see a friend, partner and lover in my man! And I will give all this in return to him!
